Minggu, 14 Oktober 2018

Finland vs. Indonesia education system

Did you know that a country that has the best education system in the world is not big countries and super power like the United States, Russia, or Japan. But Finland. Yep, the country that is geographically located in the northern hemisphere is bestowed with the title as the country with the best education system in the world. There are several things that distinguish the education system in Finland from the education system used by Indonesia, including:

1. Differences In Learning Hours
Did you know that for every 45 minutes students in Finland study, they are entitled to a 15-minute break? Finnish people believe that the best ability of students to absorb new knowledge taught will come, if they have the opportunity to rest the brain and build a new focus. They also become more productive in the learning hours because they understand that they will soon be able to play again.
In addition to increasing the focus skills above, having a longer break at school also actually has health benefits. They become more active in moving and playing, not just sitting in class. It's good if you don't get kids from small to sit too much.
however, unlike the education system in Indonesia. The education system in Indonesia implements full day school Fullday, namely by adding learning hours provided by students around 7 am to 4 pm, and usually students are only given 2 times rest with a duration of about 30 minutes each. This full day school certainly causes a lot of pros and cons from various parties, but the full day scholl is expected so that students do not waste their time in vain and do things that are distorted outside of school activities.



2. National Examinations
There is no national examination in Finland because every teacher in Finland really understands the potential of their students so that the teachers are tasked with evaluating their students. Unlike in Indonesia, the national exam determines the intelligence of children, and if the child can complete the national exam and get the highest score then he can choose the continuation of the school they want or they can enter a favorite school in Indonesia.

3. Ranking System
 Government efforts to improve the quality of schools and teachers uniformly in Finland ultimately led to the hope that all students in Finland could be smart. Without exception. Therefore, they do not trust the ranking or competition system which in the end will only produce 'a number of smart students' and 'a number of stupid students'. This system is of course the opposite of the system in Indonesia that applies the ranking for each student, there is even the title 'golden child' who is considered smart in all subjects and usually in the teacher's love. Of course this has a bad impact on children who are considered less intelligent.

That is the difference in the education system in Finland and in Indonesia, hopefully the Indonesian education system will be even better. Thank you for reading this article, hopefully you can add insight. Don't forget to leave a constructive comment

Minggu, 07 Oktober 2018

How To Build a Perfect Relationship

“Love brings up our unresolved feelings . One day we are feeling loved , and the next day we are suddenly afraid to trust love .
The painful memories of being rejected begin to surface when we are faced with trusting and accepting our partner's love .” 
― John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus





I will share tips on how to build a perfect relationship. based on the book men are from mars and women are from venus, Dr. John Gray provides a practical and proven way for men and women to improve their communication by acknowledging the differences between their needs, desires, and behaviors. i sure to help you strengthen and nurture your relationships for years to come.

This is a very important lesson throughout Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus, because communication isn't always about talking or telling someone something, often about showing it or using non-verbal communication to convey your message.

According to Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus, will give and give until they are satisfied with what they have done. This can be with emotions, money, effort, work, or physical objects. However, women will usually give in the hope that the man will reciprocate the movement.

This is where a lot of decisions can happen.

They may feel as if they are doing everything they can to show them how they want to receive it. However, maybe we don't recognize this, and maybe really think that their partner doesn't show love at all.


If both parties can understand that other partners only have different interpretations of what it means to show and give love, they can move forward.

Next, Both parties think they are heard and heard different things in the same conversation. This is one of the reasons why communication tends to be more effective when women are more direct.

According to John Gray, if a woman wants to go do something with a man, she shouldn't just ask him what he wants to do. She should, instead, tell her what she wants to do, and then ask him to join.

Also, she should ask if she would like to go do this thing that she wants to do, for her. Like, as a date. Because, if she doesn't specify this, the man can easily say, "no, I don't really feel like going to an Opera."

For example, this is an example of direct communication that doesn't blur the lines and allows both parties to communicate more clearly.

With this example, John Gray goes on to suggest the following scenario:


  • The woman gives the man three options of what she wants to do on a date, a week in advance.
  • The man gets to decide, but doesn't tell the woman until the date happens.
  • This allows the woman to anticipate the date all week, while the man gets to feel like he made a decision, while still receiving clear communication on what types of dates she wants to go on.

It may sound like a lot of work, but the key is to start with direct communication on the woman's part. It can open up new doorways to successful interactions.

the next point we have to know is Men and Women Have Different Emotional Processes.
Emotions are closely related to the way we communicate. Emotions can entice us to say certain things, hold different things, or even respond in ways we might never think about. Emotions can also change our body language and the way we signal each other, even when we don't realize we are doing it.

Women's emotions rise and fall and have very high and very low. In general, women's emotions tend to fluctuate more than men.

Men tend to be a little more confident with their emotions, which can be positive and negative. Even though they don't have the depth of depression, they may not experience as high as they are when they are happy.

One of many areas of this impact has to do with "alone time." Men are much more vulnerable to wanting time alone when they feel emotions that cause them to feel afraid or uncomfortable. Men must be left alone for a while, where they feel safe, and should not be seen as negative by their female partners. Scientifically help them to build their testosterone and think more clearly. If given time to retreat to his safe room, a man will come out of this alone time once he has handled the problem internally.

A woman, on the other hand, may feel better by talking about it and may not understand why the male partner wants to spend time alone processing the problem.

Allowing women and men to process emotions in ways that are comfortable and natural for them is an important component to keeping the lines of communication free and open.

The last important point is understanding your partner is a great way to show appreciation.
Men and women are different. They are different physically, biologically, emotionally, almost in everything. However, the reason why this relationship can succeed in the end is because this problem provides balance. You only need to find that balance.

If you take the time to really understand your partner, it can really help them feel loved, valued and valued. Men and women are different, and it is important to accept and understand this. You may speak different languages, but if you take the time to really talk with your partner, you can talk a lot.

Take the time to do things like ask questions, put yourself in someone else's shoes, or even read relationship advice books, such as Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus, to show others that you want to understand because you appreciate who them and that you want to communicate more clearly. This can help restore energy in your romantic relationship so that you and your partner can keep your relationship as healthy as possible.

that's how to build a perfect relationship from me, after all, the partner has a unique and different relationship, hopefully these tips are useful for you to improve your relationship or be useful for those of you who want to prepare a perfect relationship.thank you for reading, don't forget to leave your comment. ❤😂💕👫